Dating is Harder Than They Say
I've heard this more than once, so let's talk about it.
Yes, dating is fun, with outings and dances and pictures and such. But no it's not conflict free, because you are two humans.
I have heard two perspectives, and they are quite different. But both are worth listening to.
One is this- Movies and shows have made dating look so appealing and romantic and conflict free, that is the expectation of many. They are surprised when they begin dating and find the opposite sex thinks so differently, therefore there are things to be resolved. Even as teens.
The other is this- Bad examples are real and present. There is no problem believing that there are conflicts in relationships. The desire to see the good in dating and marriage is the prominent need...to know there is a good side to being with someone. They long for encouraging examples and advice about relationships.
We'll do a couple of posts on this topic this week.
Discussion Starter - (to ask your tween or teen)
Which of the above views do you think teens today believe? What do you believe?
Posted by Holly Tumpkin at 10:02 AM